Aug 21, 2019

Look Past Other People's Judgement of You

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Liquid error: wrong number of arguments (1 for 2)Perhaps your really different to everyone else, and they all pick on you because of it? If your really quiet and like being yourself and people don't want to let you do that, or if your just loud and bubbly and you get called a 'show-off' then here is what to do to ignore them!
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Liquid error: wrong number of arguments (1 for 2)Everyone’s different, but sometimes people will use your differences as an excuse to judge or bully you. Maybe you’re really quiet and are constantly being called ‘weird, or you’re loud and bubbly but labeled as a 'show-off.’ Judgement can really hurt, but here are some ways to get past what others think of you and just be yourself.
   
 
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== Steps ==
 
== Steps ==
#First off, think exactly what it is that makes them treat you the way they are, is the the type of music -for example you love rock/punk/emo music or classical/country or whatever genre, and maybe they just want to judge you on that, or is it your clothes, sexuality, or money problems in your family? Whatever the reason, think for a moment about it.[[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 1.jpg|center]]
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#First off, figure out what it is that makes the person (or people) don’t like a about you. It could be your interests, like what music you listen to, the books you read, or the hobbies you enjoy. It could be a personality trait, like your optimism or confidence. Maybe it’s something very important to you, like your religion or way of life, or something you can’t change, like your race, sex/gender, sexuality, or family structure. It could be something else entirely. Taking a minute to figure it out can help you to deal with it. [[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 1.jpg|center]]
#You know it's not fair the way they are treating you, so just keep it in mind. You have done absolutely nothing wrong, your just being you, and these people are just jealous because they can't be themselves, they have to follow everyone else![[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 2.jpg|center]]
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#Keep in mind that you have done nothing wrong. If you are simply being yourself and aren’t harming others, then there is no justification for anyone to be upset about your choices. (However, if other people’s problem with you is that you act unkindly or that your choices are hurting others, then think about what they’re saying, and consider talking to them about the problem. Maybe you should make some changes to how you treat those around you.)[[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 2.jpg|center]]
#The next time someone says something about your music, clothes, or whatever it is, Smile and walk away. Do that because your better than them -and that's a fact![[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 3.jpg|center]]
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#The next time someone says something about your music, clothes, or whatever it is, just smile and walk away. Don’t retaliate and stoop to their level. If they continue to harass you, consider getting help from from someone you trust. (If you’re a kid, that means finding a responsible adult to help out.)[[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 3.jpg|center]]
#You don't need to hide who you are, they'll only pick on you more! Embrace who you are and they will soon see that you won't be changing![[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 4.jpg|center]]
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#Don’t try to hide who you truly are. This will only lead to you feeling unhappy and might have a serious effect on your mental health. However, if you are in serious danger because of something like your sexuality or opinions, consider keeping them hidden until you’re in a safer place, especially if you’re a kid and unable to move if those in your community are hostile towards you.[[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 4.jpg|center]]
#Just keep remembering, if everyone was the same, life would be boring![[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 5.jpg|center]]
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#Remember that our differences are what make us beautiful, and that you are are beautiful beyond words. [[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 5.jpg|center]]
#Keep going, don't stop being your awesome self![[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 6.jpg|center]]
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#Keep going, and don't stop being your awesome self![[Image:Look Past Other People's Judgement of You Step 6.jpg|center]]
   
   
 
== Tips ==
 
== Tips ==
*There is nothing wrong with you, so tell that to the Bullies!
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*There is nothing wrong with you. Remind yourself of that when you’re feeling down.
*The way you are is the way you should be, and maybe other people can't see that, but you should!
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*There are a lot of mean people out there, but there are good people too! Find friends that accept you for who you are and that you feel good hanging out with.
*If the bullying gets out of hand, and gets too physical bullying instead of Mental bullying, tell someone! It's not weak to have help to sort out your problems!
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*If the bullying gets out of hand, tell someone! Asking for help takes bravery, and it doesn’t make you weak or a snitch. It means you’re strong enough to get help.


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