Apr 12, 2020

Catch a Cheating Boyfriend

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#Notice if his sleeping habits or daily schedule start to change. If your boyfriend is usually in bed by 9 and is suddenly out all night or sneaking around the house late at night, this may be a sign of cheating.[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 2 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#Notice if his sleeping habits or daily schedule start to change. If your boyfriend is usually in bed by 9 and is suddenly out all night or sneaking around the house late at night, this may be a sign of cheating.[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 2 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*Similarly, if he usually sticks to a set routine of going to the gym in the morning or heading home from the office by 5, but he is now sleeping in or staying at the office late, these adjustments in his daily schedule could hint at time spent elsewhere, possibly in the company of someone else.<ref>https://ift.tt/2K0iwFO>
 
#*Similarly, if he usually sticks to a set routine of going to the gym in the morning or heading home from the office by 5, but he is now sleeping in or staying at the office late, these adjustments in his daily schedule could hint at time spent elsewhere, possibly in the company of someone else.<ref>https://ift.tt/2K0iwFO>
#Ask yourself if he seems more distracted or distant. If he is usually a very attentive, supportive partner who asks you how your day is and enjoys having long conversations with you over dinner, and then suddenly appears uninterested in your day or bored by long conversations with you, this may be a sign his interest or engagement is focused elsewhere and not on you.<ref>https://ift.tt/2VkD2GG>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 3 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Ask yourself if he seems more distracted or distant. If he is usually a very attentive, supportive partner who asks you how your day is and enjoys having long conversations with you over dinner, and then suddenly appears uninterested in your day or bored by long conversations with you, this may be a sign his interest or engagement is focused elsewhere and not on you. [[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 3 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*Your partner may also lose interest in domestic activities like spending time with the kids, fixing up the house, mowing the lawn, etc.  
 
#*Your partner may also lose interest in domestic activities like spending time with the kids, fixing up the house, mowing the lawn, etc.  
 
#*He may also spend more time on his phone texting or on the computer in private chat rooms or social media pages. If his phone or computer use goes up dramatically or if he becomes secretive about his phone or computer use, this may be a red flag.<ref>https://ift.tt/34sRe4k>
 
#*He may also spend more time on his phone texting or on the computer in private chat rooms or social media pages. If his phone or computer use goes up dramatically or if he becomes secretive about his phone or computer use, this may be a red flag.<ref>https://ift.tt/34sRe4k>
 
#Note any changes or shifts in your sex life. Perhaps there has been a decline in the amount of sex you are having or a strange, sudden increase in sexual activity, with new sexual preferences or tastes that you did not experience with him previously.<ref>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/yourtango/6-signs-i-totally-missed-_b_6374650.html</ref><ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/18-ingenious-ways-to-catch-a-cheating-partner</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 4 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#Note any changes or shifts in your sex life. Perhaps there has been a decline in the amount of sex you are having or a strange, sudden increase in sexual activity, with new sexual preferences or tastes that you did not experience with him previously.<ref>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/yourtango/6-signs-i-totally-missed-_b_6374650.html</ref><ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/18-ingenious-ways-to-catch-a-cheating-partner</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 4 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*You may start wondering where he learned a certain sexual move or what caused him to develop a certain preference in bed. One possible reason is he may be trying out new moves with someone else.
 
#*You may start wondering where he learned a certain sexual move or what caused him to develop a certain preference in bed. One possible reason is he may be trying out new moves with someone else.
#*He may also have a lower sex drive or spurn off your attempts at being intimate with excuses like “I'm tired,” or “Maybe another night.”<ref>https://ift.tt/2VkD2GG>
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#*He may also have a lower sex drive or spurn off your attempts at being intimate with excuses like “I'm tired,” or “Maybe another night.”
 
#Notice if he gets defensive or angry at you easily and more often. If he seems to be picking a lot of fights, get angry at you for something small he would usually not be upset about, or gets defensive when you ask him about his night out with the boys, these may be signs of cheating.<ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/18-ingenious-ways-to-catch-a-cheating-partner</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 5 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#Notice if he gets defensive or angry at you easily and more often. If he seems to be picking a lot of fights, get angry at you for something small he would usually not be upset about, or gets defensive when you ask him about his night out with the boys, these may be signs of cheating.<ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/18-ingenious-ways-to-catch-a-cheating-partner</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 5 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*Changes in his normal behavior that involve anger towards you could in fact be a reflection of his guilt for cheating or fear that you may find out about his affair.
 
#*Changes in his normal behavior that involve anger towards you could in fact be a reflection of his guilt for cheating or fear that you may find out about his affair.
#Pay attention to how he handles the aftermath of a fight. Does he leave, get some space, and then return to apologize? Or does he neglect to apologize or show remorse for hurtful words he said to you? If he is usually good at forgiving and forgetting after a fight and this is not happening anymore, this may be a red flag.<ref>https://ift.tt/1zFI6Bc</ref><ref>https://ift.tt/2JX9qd3</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 6 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Pay attention to how he handles the aftermath of a fight. Does he leave, get some space, and then return to apologize? Or does he neglect to apologize or show remorse for hurtful words he said to you? If he is usually good at forgiving and forgetting after a fight and this is not happening anymore, this may be a red flag.<ref>https://ift.tt/34sRe4k> [[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 6 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*It's important to remember that your boyfriend's inner turmoil has nothing to do with you and is a reflection of his own anxieties and fears. Try not to take his anger towards you personal or put pressure on yourself to try to make him forgive you or feel better, as this could also mean he is actually feeling guilty about an affair.
 
#*It's important to remember that your boyfriend's inner turmoil has nothing to do with you and is a reflection of his own anxieties and fears. Try not to take his anger towards you personal or put pressure on yourself to try to make him forgive you or feel better, as this could also mean he is actually feeling guilty about an affair.
 
#Write down any suspicious changes in your boyfriend's behavior. This will help you compile evidence of his cheating and determine the times, dates, excuses given, etc, that helped him lie to you about the affair.<ref>http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/lying-and-deception/detecting-deception/discover-the-truth/catch-cheating.html</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 7 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#Write down any suspicious changes in your boyfriend's behavior. This will help you compile evidence of his cheating and determine the times, dates, excuses given, etc, that helped him lie to you about the affair.<ref>http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/lying-and-deception/detecting-deception/discover-the-truth/catch-cheating.html</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 7 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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=== Looking Through His Things ===
 
=== Looking Through His Things ===
 
#Take note of his cell phone activity. Notice if he has been making long phone calls at strange times of night or receiving text messages from other girls. He may also have new phone etiquette where he needs privacy or space when talking to someone, he hangs up as soon as you walk into the room or he brushes you off when you ask him who he is talking to on the phone.<ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/18-ingenious-ways-to-catch-a-cheating-partner</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 10.jpg|center]]
 
#Take note of his cell phone activity. Notice if he has been making long phone calls at strange times of night or receiving text messages from other girls. He may also have new phone etiquette where he needs privacy or space when talking to someone, he hangs up as soon as you walk into the room or he brushes you off when you ask him who he is talking to on the phone.<ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/relationships/18-ingenious-ways-to-catch-a-cheating-partner</ref>[[Image:Catch a Cheating Boyfriend Step 10.jpg|center]]
#*If you can get your hands on his cell phone bill (on paper or online), you can look at every call made for that month, which will give you a chance to check for any long conversations at odd times, or lots of calls to one particular number that you don't recognize.<ref>https://ift.tt/2VkD2GG>
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#*If you can get your hands on his cell phone bill (on paper or online), you can look at every call made for that month, which will give you a chance to check for any long conversations at odd times, or lots of calls to one particular number that you don't recognize.
 
#*You can also try to check his phone messages and voicemail, though this may be an easy way to get caught snooping around. A good time to check his phone is when he is in the shower or out for a walk and has placed it on the charger.<ref>https://ift.tt/2K0iwFO>
 
#*You can also try to check his phone messages and voicemail, though this may be an easy way to get caught snooping around. A good time to check his phone is when he is in the shower or out for a walk and has placed it on the charger.<ref>https://ift.tt/2K0iwFO>
 
#*If your boyfriend tends to misplace his phone, another thing you can do is simply take it and let him assume he lost it. This way you can see who is calling or texting him on a daily basis.
 
#*If your boyfriend tends to misplace his phone, another thing you can do is simply take it and let him assume he lost it. This way you can see who is calling or texting him on a daily basis.


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