Apr 18, 2020

Treat a Girl

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*Take things slow.  Don't rush into an emotional or physical attachment just because you think you should.
 
*Take things slow.  Don't rush into an emotional or physical attachment just because you think you should.
 
* Instead of hot or sexy, say that she looks beautiful. Girls like that better. And beautiful is more respectful too.
 
* Instead of hot or sexy, say that she looks beautiful. Girls like that better. And beautiful is more respectful too.
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*If she's upset or angry, let her vent her feelings towards you. Talk about her problems, but don't try to take over and fix everything. You could end up making things worse for her. While she needs to handle her problem herself, if you allow her to talk it over with you, it will make her realize that you care for her. She will appreciate it, and if she goes through even more rough times, she'll know who to talk to. This will build up trust and loyalty between the two of you.
 
*Treat her with the same respect you would to your future wife. (If you plan on getting married - some people don't. Still, treating her with respect is never a mistake.)
 
*Treat her with the same respect you would to your future wife. (If you plan on getting married - some people don't. Still, treating her with respect is never a mistake.)
 
*Pay careful attention to your [[Have Good Manners|manners]] at all times.
 
*Pay careful attention to your [[Have Good Manners|manners]] at all times.
 
*Opening doors and pulling out chairs for the girl is not old fashioned and square, it's sweet! Any girl likes a boy who will treat her well, one who is not afraid to be sweet to her.
 
*Opening doors and pulling out chairs for the girl is not old fashioned and square, it's sweet! Any girl likes a boy who will treat her well, one who is not afraid to be sweet to her.
*If she's upset or angry, let her vent her feelings towards you. Talk about her problems, but don't try to take over and fix everything. You could end up making things worse for her. While she needs to handle her problem herself, if you allow her to talk it over with you, it will make her realize that you care for her. She will appreciate it, and if she goes through even more rough times, she'll know who to talk to. This will build up trust and loyalty between the two of you.
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*Make sure you are yourself and if she doesn't like that there is no point of faking yourself for her to like you. Act as you would normally do.
 
*Put yourself in her place and treat her accordingly.  In other words, how would you wish to be treated, if you were her?
 
*Put yourself in her place and treat her accordingly.  In other words, how would you wish to be treated, if you were her?
*Make sure you are yourself and if she doesn't like that there is no point of faking yourself for her to like you. Act as you would normally do.
 
 
*While most young women aren't overly analyzing things, once you start dating, she's appraising you: what you do, how you dress, dates you take them on, and lots of other things. Take this into account and dress for the situation, as a good balance will keep her impressed. There's no point in dressing to impress, then being cheap about where you take her.  It's like going to a nice restaurant in a tracksuit.
 
*While most young women aren't overly analyzing things, once you start dating, she's appraising you: what you do, how you dress, dates you take them on, and lots of other things. Take this into account and dress for the situation, as a good balance will keep her impressed. There's no point in dressing to impress, then being cheap about where you take her.  It's like going to a nice restaurant in a tracksuit.
 
*[[Ask Your Girlfriend to Hold Hands|Hold her hand]], especially if you catch her dangling it surreptitiously behind her. But be careful not to be clingy. Not all girls love the "togetherness" feeling of holding hands, just like not all the boys are the same.
 
*[[Ask Your Girlfriend to Hold Hands|Hold her hand]], especially if you catch her dangling it surreptitiously behind her. But be careful not to be clingy. Not all girls love the "togetherness" feeling of holding hands, just like not all the boys are the same.


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